Living in a digital world, we cannot deny that chatting can significantly save our time and thereby help us find new acquaintances. Moreover, 72% of people find it easier to start communication on social networks than in public places. Do you want to fill your life with interesting people and acquaintances? Then quickly read the tricks that we have prepared for you.
Communication should be unusual.
Obviously, in a situation when you first communicate with a person, you can write a banal "Hello". But in the future, if you want to further interest the interlocutor, you should fill the chat with interesting news or stories. Also, it is important to show your interest in communication by asking: "What interesting things did you learn today?" or "What have you been doing today?". It would be nice if you started the conversation with some questions about hobbies, interests, or ask about a person's favourite TV shows or films. In this case, you will be remembered, it will be pleasant to communicate with you.
Don't let "killer" phrases appear in the chat.
Don't answer with one word like "ok" or "aha", the person won't write to you next time, because will think that he\she is being imposed or not interesting to you. Better use: "Wow, this is so cool" or "This is quite interesting."
Ask unexpected questions.
To liven up the chat, in case you realize that something is going wrong, ask something unexpected. It is enough just to ask: "What breed of dog do you like?" or: "Do you like chocolate ice cream." After such questions, the conversation goes on by itself. Our advice to you is to remember the details, the person will be pleasantly surprised when he realizes that you are really interested in communicating.
Add a pinch of humor to the chat.
Don't be too serious, really. Just relax and joke sometimes, make it fun. If you are always positive, make a person laugh, it will be good to defuse the situation and set the person up for positive conversations. Don't be afraid to seem silly, trust us, it is better to communicate with a person who treats everything with humor and positive, than with a nerd.
Sometimes you need a break
Once in a while, with regular communication, both you and the other person need breaks. The likelihood that you will get bored with each other because of excess communication is very high. That is why you should possibly communicate with someone else in order for the person to miss you. And then you can surprise his\her with unexpected surprises, such as a meeting or a gift.